How to have your best life NOW

I have a simple (yes, simple) “tool” to help you live your best life.

I’ll bet many of us don’t know what our best life even looks like. And, we probably don’t or can’t even imagine it.

That’s the best part.

The tool I’m suggesting puts you on the path to allowing your best life to unfold with all its magic and surprises along the way.

How? And why do I know this?

Because I’ve done it. I’m experiencing it.

When I talk to audiences about my book, Missing Pieces Plan, my message is this: You can have the life you want. You ‘just’ have to spend the time to dream it up.

Knowing what you want is a gift you give yourself.

So what is this “tool” to help you live your best life?

The “tool” is formulating what you want. The “tool” is dreaming it up. The “tool” is making the wishes for how you want your life to go. That’s it. It’s that simple.

And, it can be however you choose to do it (dreaming, journaling, meditating, all of the above!). The goal is the same – – to listen to your heart’s desire.

What’s it telling you?


What matters to you?

Whom do you want to be in relationship with?

What deserves your time? What or whom does not?

Is there something you want to build or create in this life?

What are you doing that is wasting your time?

What do you want to remove from your life?

Where do you want to travel?

If you could craft your ‘best day,’ what would it look like?

How do you want life to look when you’re not here?

If you’re not here tomorrow?

How do you want to participate in this life?


Our life is ours to craft.

Here’s how I know. Last summer I set out to move across country back to Los Angeles after our daughters finished the school year. Yet, in less than seven months the move happened. An opportunity unfolded I didn’t see coming and, so much more than I ever could have dreamed up. All of it, outside my wildest dreams.

What I am saying is this, if we allow ourselves the space to dream it, think it, wish it then we set it in motion and our dreams unfold.

Am I living my best life? Well not yet, but I’m on the path. Did I get all I want? No, not yet But, I know it’s coming. If I can dream it, it can be.

I want that for you, too.

All you have to do is want it and make space for it to happen.

You got this!!

Sending you love,


“Death helps us love life” Dr. BJ Miller